Dunlop Wellness for the Glory of God

Living Well after 40 with Joy and Contentment in All of Life
1. Auflage 2014
ISBN: 978-1-4335-3815-5
Verlag: Crossway
Format: EPUB
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E-Book, Englisch, 192 Seiten

What Is True Wellness? From dieting cookbooks to workout DVDs, our culture is obsessed with getting healthy and staying fit. But what does true wellness really entail, especially as we get older? In this comprehensive book, a Christian doctor explores the six areas of life that contribute to a holistic vision of health: physical, mental, social, financial, spiritual, and emotional. With questions for personal reflection and group discussion, this book offers older Christians the guidance they need to view aging as an opportunity for continued learning and growth in all areas of life.

John Dunlop (MD, Johns Hopkins University) practiced geriatric medicine for thirty-eight years and taught in the bioethics program at Trinity International University. He now lives in New Haven, Connecticut, where he taught at the Yale School of Medicine. Dunlop is the author of Finishing Well to the Glory of God; Wellness for the Glory of God; and Finding Grace in the Face of Dementia.

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Dunlop, John

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Introduction

Henry came into the examining room huffing and puffing, using his walker to get down the hall. I shook his hand and asked, “How is it going my friend?” Smiling, he gave me a strong handshake and said, “Praise the Lord, I’m well, thank you!” As pleased as I was to hear his response, it caught me just a bit off-guard. I was sixty-five; he was ninety-five! I found myself wanting to be like that thirty years from now. Then all kinds of questions began to pop into my mind:

• What does it mean to be well at ninety-five: short of breath and using our walkers?
• Will I be able to say I’m well if I am still on earth at that age?
• What can I do now to increase the chance of being well in thirty years?

Having practiced medicine, with a special emphasis on geriatrics, since 1976, I have seen a lot of folks move through their older years. A significant percentage of my patients are Christians. I am impressed at how different the later days of life can generally be for those who embrace faith in Christ compared to those who do not. However, there are no universal rules for growing old successfully. Some, Christian or not, seem to thrive and continue to grow as life’s end approaches; others slowly fade away without joy or a sense of completion. I am fully aware that much of what makes the difference between the two is outside of man’s control. Yet I am equally convinced that some is within man’s control. I often tell my patients that the difference between ninety-five-year-olds in the nursing home and those on the golf course is the choices they made in their sixties. That is what this book is about.

What strategies can we who are getting older adopt that will maximize our chances to endure the challenges of our later days and continue to be well? The essence of this book is expressed in the title. Wellness depends on living with a purpose that goes beyond the here and now. Over and over I have seen that one way in which Christians can stay well in their twilight years is to keep their focus on God, his greatness, and his glory.

Born in 1947, I am well into my second half of life. That makes me a Baby Boomer, a member of the generation that arrived between 1946 and 1964. I suspect that many of you are Boomers too. As Boomers, we are close to retirement and confronting the fact that our lives are more than half over. I remind my patients that getting older means two things: first, we are not old yet, but we’re getting there; and, second, we’re not dead yet! They say, “Old dogs can’t learn new tricks.” That may be true, but remember that we are still just getting older, so there is time to change. If we are going to age successfully, we need to think carefully about what we want to be like when we are old, take stock of where we are now, and develop strategies to move us from here to there. We need to consider all domains of wellness to get a complete picture.

In this book we will examine physical, mental, social, financial, spiritual, and emotional wellness. As you read, I will share stories of people who are quite old and doing well. Many of these are real people, though their names are altered. In some cases I have combined several stories to make a point; others are purely fictitious. These examples allow us to see what being well in the later years can look like and what strategies we can implement now to increase our chance of continuing to be well.

There is great value in our older years. They are an important part of our lives. We dare not look at these years as putting in time till God calls us home. That unfortunately may be the default of our culture, but as Christians we must not allow that thinking. The changes we experience as we age are nothing to be embarrassed about. No! Proverbs 16:31 tells us, “Gray hair is a crown of glory.” The effects of aging are clear evidence of God’s blessing. Even our increasing dependence on others need not deny our intrinsic value. We must see our value as rooted in the fact that we are made in God’s image and redeemed by Christ, not in what we can accomplish. For way too long, we have faced getting older with some degree of apprehension and dread. Now it is time to see a more positive picture. Statistically, our generation is likely to live longer than any generation since ancient times. God does not make mistakes. He is allowing this longevity for a definite reason. We need to find the purpose he has for our older years and pursue it with vigor.

I have a lot to share with you and want to propose a number of strategies for you to think over. I am writing as if you were one of my patients, and we are chatting together at my office. I love such conversations, but often there is just too much to talk about in the limited time we have together, so I have put these suggestions in writing for you.

This book is not intended to be a comfortable read. Even while writing I have been challenged to make some changes in my own life. I pray that these thoughts will challenge you as well. As I share my strategies with you, stop, think, and pray that God will show you how you are doing in that area. When you think of changes you need to make, turn to the back of the book where you can write down specific steps to take. Make yourself accountable and write down dates by which you feel you can make the change. Don’t limit yourself to the suggestions I make. Allow God, by his Spirit, to speak to you and prompt you about other necessary changes.

You will note that this book is written specifically for and about Christians. If you are truly a Christian, I trust you will find these chapters encouraging as you look forward to further years knowing God on this earth and, even more, to spending your eternity with God in heaven. Some of you have lived a “good Christian life” but find that the way of life I am talking about here goes far beyond your experience. I would urge you to find a godly pastor or friend and talk over your reactions.

Perhaps you do not view yourself as Christian. Please read on, for many of the strategies I present are equally valid for you, and perhaps you will see that the Christian faith makes sense and that there is a lot of wisdom in the Scriptures I quote. Several friends suggested I write a book without a strong spiritual emphasis, yet I chose not to do so since a strong faith is critical to successful aging. I felt it imperative to write within a spiritual, and in this case, Christian, context.

A book like this never comes out of a vacuum. As you will see, I ground many of my strategies in the Bible. I trust you will see the quotes as illustrative of what the Bible teaches as a whole and not just as isolated passages intended to prove my point. I had the privilege of growing up under the tutelage of wise and godly parents who had a lasting impact on my life. My years of medical practice allowed me to observe how many patients stayed well to the glory of God, and I learned much from them. Though it seems ironic to say, many were quite well when they died.

It is impossible to give individual credit to many of the dear friends whose impact I have felt, but, without a doubt, God has greatly used them to shape the thinking expressed in this volume. I owe a significant debt to each. One who deserves specific mention is Dr. Charles (Chick) Sell, who has spent countless hours helping me put “doctor talk” into writing that you can understand. I am also indebted to my wife, Dorothy, my two sons, Jamie and Rob, and friends such as Rose Bowen, Nate and Sharon Hale, and Donna Crum, who have read the manuscript and offered wise counsel. Finally, I want to thank Lydia Brownback of Crossway for her careful editing.

Before we get into our first chapter, take a moment and reflect on the challenge we have in the Scriptures:

Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified. (1 Cor. 9:24–27)

Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us. (Heb. 12:1)

Life really is like a race, and, as any runner knows, the end of the race is the hardest. Think for just a moment about who is there at the finish line. It is Jesus, the one who died for us. As soon as we cross the finish line, we will be invited to “enter into the joy of [our] master” (Matt. 25:21). But even as we run, we are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses who have already finished their race. The church triumphant is cheering us on. I can almost hear them shouting, “Stay well! Run hard! It won’t be too much farther.” My prayer is that you will find in this book useful strategies to stay well to the end, so that God will be glorified in your life and in the lives of those who are watching you.

Prayer

Father,

I am attracted to the concept of staying well to the glory of God. Speak to me through your Word by your Spirit as I read and help me examine my life to know what changes I need to make. Renew my passion for you. Help me to offer the remaining days I have on earth as a sacrifice to you. Give me wisdom; show me the way. Grant...