Lawack / Wessels / Craig Impossible Bosses

Secret Strategies to Deal with 8 Archetypal Managers
1. Auflage 2022
ISBN: 978-1-77619-192-5
Verlag: Jonathan Ball
Format: EPUB
Kopierschutz: 6 - ePub Watermark

E-Book, Englisch, 224 Seiten

Difficult managers can obstruct your professional growth by hiding corporate ladders and trapping you in an invisible cage. Using different psychological profiling systems, the authors identify eight archetypal characters who create uniquely challenging situations at work, including Ms Say-Me (the competitive control freak), Mr Tumbleweed (the indecisive worrier), Ms Crosswire (the disorganised people schmoozer), Mr Make-Up (the seemingly nice manipulator) and their four demanding friends. You'll learn about their key character traits and why they act the way they do. Best of all, you'll learn secret strategies for mitigating the impact of an impossible boss on your work experience and how to communicate your ideas to them. This book offers practical tips for how to rapidly take back control of your career and navigate tricky situations. A coach in your pocket, Impossible Bosses shows you how to manage your manage.

VIVIENNE LAWACK is a lawyer by training and Deputy Vice-Chancellor: Academic at the University of the Western Cape.

Autoren/Hrsg.

Lawack, Vivienne

Wessels, Hanlie Lizette

Craig, Robert

Leseproben

Introduction

When you join a new company or a team, there are a number of things that you will have a level of certainty about beforehand, including your job title and description, the name of the person to whom you will report to and your employment terms. But one crucial element will remain unknown until you start in the new position or job, and that is what your new boss will be like.

You might end up working under a highly capable manager who encourages you to grow and develop professionally, and who leads her team effectively. On the other hand, you might have to report to a manager who is inefficient and disorganised or who micromanages her team to everyone’s great frustration.

Regardless of whether you work in a physical or virtual environment, as an employee you always have certain responsibilities and duties that must be performed, and managers to whom you must report. Every day, the work environment is filled with staff interactions, project deadlines, and discussions about work goals in which there will be agreements and disagreements. There are always competing objectives that are limited by available resources, and the pressure this creates seldom brings out the best in people. It can turn managers into demanding individuals who seem to become irrational and can be very difficult to work with in a constructive manner.

Your skill levels and subject matter proficiency, as well as your work ethic, are all key to your success. However, when faced with an impossible boss, it also becomes crucial to have the skill to deal with that person. Without this ability, your situation at work could become unbearable and you might be forced to start looking for another job.

In this book we identify eight archetypal difficult managers whom we have encountered repeatedly in different companies we’ve worked at over the years. These eight objectionable managers consistently required extra effort to deal with, regardless of whether we reported directly to them or had to manage or work with them.

Meet Ms Say-Me: The competitive control freak, Mr Tumbleweed: The indecisive worrier, Mr Bright: The needy smarty pants, Ms Crosswire: The disorganised people schmoozer, Ms When-We: The stuck-in-the-past broken record, Mr Make-Up: The seemingly nice manipulator, Mr Slow-Lounge: The disengaged passenger and Mr Illusion: The calculated political strategist. Some of these impossible bosses are fairly easy to recognise but others – such as Mr Illusion and Mr Make-Up – are not.

Each archetype creates uniquely problematic situations at work and all of them can leave your career stuck in an invisible cage, going nowhere. At face value, four of the impossible bosses simply appear to have several poor work habits and specific dislikes, but even these can distract you from your own career goals and stifle your professional progress.

We are working on the assumption that you might have your own career goals or at the very least would like to know how to deal with your impossible boss. While we understand that not all employees have leadership ambitions, we will assume that everyone reading this book has personal career goals and finds meaning and fulfilment in their work. Whether you hope to climb the career ladder or not, it is often difficult to demonstrate your true value and leadership skills when you struggle to manage your relationship with your manager and start to feel marginalised.

In some industries or professions, this can happen more frequently than in others, and difficult managers can have a real impact on who gets ahead and who doesn’t.

For one, impossible bosses can obstruct your growth by hiding corporate ladders from you. As a result, you may not reach your full potential or grow into the leader you would like to become. You may also lose precious time as you get caught up in trying to cope with the pressures an impossible boss creates instead of working towards your career goals.

A distinguishing characteristic of a strong person in the workplace is the ability to deal successfully with difficult individuals. Whether you want to prove yourself as such, or simply wish to make office life bearable, you need to learn how to manage your impossible boss. If you approach the situation with an open mind and an inquisitive attitude, you will learn much about yourself and others.

It is not necessarily easy or comfortable achieving this kind of growth, but the battle is half won once you realise your manager is displaying characteristics of one of the archetypes. Once you know who and what you are dealing with, you can change the way in which you respond to them, and you’ll gradually learn to manage tricky interactions.

This book will help you not only to identify but also to demystify these eight impossible bosses. Most importantly, it offers secret strategies to deal with them, which should enable you to turn tough situations around, and do so in a short space of time. This will lead to greater stability at work.

By recognising the type of manager you are dealing with, and by using the secret strategies to deal with them more effectively, you are taking back control and giving yourself a much better chance to make an impact at work. You’ll be able to utilise your time better, reduce the pressure due to stressful situations, and create better outcomes for yourself, your team and the company.

Each chapter describes a few typical scenarios – based on real-life experiences – that one could find oneself in with that specific manager type. It also offers an explanation from a psychological perspective for their actions and reactions. This is followed by secret strategies for how to avoid unnecessary conflict, untangle knotty situations, get better results and enrich your work experience.

Each chapter concludes with advice on how to recognise any invisible cages you might find yourself, in and the factors that should influence your decision to stay on or to leave a position where you report to a difficult manager. Throughout this book, we refer to the different ways in which the various impossible bosses can restrict you to an invisible cage, depending on their unique impossible traits. These invisible cages could include standing in for your manager without getting recognition for it or constantly doing extra work because your manager overpromised on a project.

Sometimes it is because it suits them better that you are constantly busy with their objectives. In this instance, the invisible cage you will find yourself in is that you have little time to focus on your own goals and growth. They may even convince you that additional studies and development are not required and that you are perfect as you are – because the time that goes into studying means less time for you to attend to their objectives.

In another instance, it may be that the invisible cage is having limited opportunity to demonstrate the value you offer, for example, when your impossible boss shuts down all your ideas because they don’t like it when anyone else puts forward good ideas. Sometimes their lack of decision-making becomes your invisible cage, as it locks the team into a cage where difficult and important matters are never resolved, and goals are rarely achieved. Precious time is lost, and no one can move forward.

It is important to look out for these invisible cages or restrictions, as it prevents you from showing up as the best version of yourself.

At the same time, note how some impossible bosses use the prospect of climbing the corporate ladder to limit their team or to protect themselves. Impossible bosses often use the promise of promotion and growth opportunities – and their power to either open or close these opportunities for you – as bait. They dangle possibilities in front of employees to get them to put in extra hours. You end up sacrificing family and personal time to pander to an impossible boss’s overpromise or to stand in yet again when they are off on a business trip. Impossible bosses can also withhold from you opportunities to be promoted, especially if they feel threatened by you.

Once you are aware of how an impossible boss can impact your professional growth, you will be motivated to actively manage that relationship and make better choices around how to respond to them. That is why we also offer a range of secret strategies to manage your manager.

In most instances, the secret strategies entail that you change the way you behave in certain situations. The secret strategies do not require you to change who you are. Rather, they are techniques that you can use to interact with your manager – and other colleagues – for more effective outcomes. If you use these techniques authentically and consistently, you will find that your manager will slowly become accustomed to your responses and will begin to expect a certain reaction or behaviour from you whenever they deal with you.

Some strategies are more complex to execute and, in such instances, we have provided more elaborate examples of how to go about things. The secret strategies for some of the more complex characters also offer a bigger variety of options, but where there are fewer strategies, they can be re-used in different situations.

As a warning: initially some of the strategies may make you feel slightly resentful, as it requires you to subtly lead your boss in their thinking. However, the alternatives are to fight with your manager or to do nothing. We have learnt over time that investing your energy upfront in managing your relationship with your manager will be a more fruitful course of action in the long run, rather than constantly having...