Helmstetter / Ph.D. 365 Days of Positive Self-Talk for Finding Your Purpose

1. Auflage 2016
ISBN: 978-0-9836312-5-5
Verlag: Park Avenue Press
Format: EPUB
Kopierschutz: Adobe DRM (»Systemvoraussetzungen)

E-Book, Englisch, 208 Seiten

'365 Days of Positive Self-Talk for Finding Your Purpose' gives the reader an inspiring Daily Calendar Guide to finding life's greatest value and meaning. Upbeat and uplifting, the book also features helpful 'Self-Talk Tips' and personal 'Author's Notes' that explain how self-talk works, and how to apply positive self-talk in every area of life. This book is inspiring, motivating, informative and immediately helpful. From the author of the classic best-seller, 'What to Say When You Talk to Your Self.'

Autoren/Hrsg.

Helmstetter, Shad

Ph.D.,

Leseproben

Before You Begin . . . Some starting words to help you
get the most from reading this book,
and three secrets you need to know. The words you say, especially the words you say when you talk to yourself, not only change your day, they change your life. This book is based on the amazing scientific discovery that no matter what age you are, your brain continues to change, and that it is always changing. Because of your brain’s neuroplasticity, your brain is designed to continually rewire itself. And it rewires itself based on the input it gets. That’s why your self-talk is incredibly important. Secret #1: The thoughts you think and the words you say physically and chemically change your brain. Your self-talk literally wires your brain to succeed or fail. Day after day, word by word, your self-talk is wiring programs into your brain. And the picture of you that you wire in most is what you get back out most. It is your self-talk that creates the foundation for your success or failure in life. Right now, even as you’re reading this, you’re wiring and changing your brain. Your self-talk is the commander of your ship, the director of your life. It is the brain’s guiding hand that leads you in the right direction—or in the wrong direction. Your self-talk is the messenger that tells you which path you should follow, what to think and what to do next. Every thought you think wires your brain to be happy or sad, positive or negative, in a good mood or a bad mood, open to new ideas or closed to them, believing in yourself or not believing in yourself, looking for alternatives or accepting defeat. In fact, everything about you is, at this moment, being influenced or controlled by your self-talk. What Is Self-Talk and Why Is It So Important? Self-talk is the direction you give to your brain that tells it how to run your life. Self-talk is everything you say when you talk to yourself. It is your conscious thoughts, and your unconscious thoughts, the thoughts you don’t even know you’re thinking. It is what you say out loud or what you say silently to yourself. And in its most important form, your self-talk is everything you say or think about you—how you feel about yourself—and what you think and what you believe about anything and everything. Most of us recognize that when we were growing up, we got programmed—and we end up becoming those programs and living them out. The remarkable thing, and a great blessing about self-talk, is that you can change that programming. And when you change your programs, you change your life. That’s what the right self-talk will do for you. Secret #2: It’s been estimated that as much as 77% or more of all of the programs each of us has right now are negative, false, counterproductive, or working against us. Since it will always be up to each of us to get rid of the negative programs we have, and replace them with the positive kind, any tool that will help us change them can be a blessing. And self-talk is the best tool for changing our programs we have ever found. In this book you’ll find 365 daily self-talk scripts of the right kind of self-talk—the kind of self-talk we should have been getting in the first place. These self-talk scripts are the result of more than 35 years of studying self-talk and how it works, and writing and recording self-talk scripts in dozens of subject areas. I first began writing self-talk scripts in the late 1970s. At that time, I was studying self-talk and its effects on personal success, and I was writing the first scripts for recording self-talk audio programs for people to listen to. We had learned that with repeated listening, people could permanently wire positive new messages into their brains, just by playing the recorded self-talk in the background. At the time, the role that self-talk played in people’s lives wasn’t yet generally understood. Few people realized that their own self-talk, unconsciously repeated throughout each day, was actually programming their brain, and often in the wrong way. My studies in this field led to the writing over 20 books on the subject of self-talk and personal growth. My first book, What to Say When You Talk to Your Self, introduced the subject of self-talk as we know it today. That book is now published in more than 70 countries, and its popularity shows how mainstream the concept of positive self-talk has become. My recent book, The Power of Neuroplasticity, gives the latest updates on this amazing subject, and presents the science behind positive self-talk. It shows clearly that when it comes to its ability to change our lives, self-talk is based on solid science. Clear, Positive Programs In 365 Days of Positive Self-Talk for Finding Your Purpose, you’ll find daily self-talk messages for reprogramming your brain in a clear, positive way. The self-talk messages have the power to become much more than a few words you read each day. Reading them, rereading them, and wiring them into your brain could do more than just uplift your year––it could uplift your life. Reading the self-talk messages one day at a time will give you not only daily inspiration, but also a chance to make each day a better day. However, if you’re looking for extra guidance or inspiration at any time, turn to any page to see what you find. If you’re looking for an uplift, or need to get back on track, you’re sure to find the self-talk you need is just a few pages away. If you want to get the greatest benefit from this book, read each day’s self-talk message as you start your day, and read that same message again just before you go to sleep that night. There’s a reason for doing this that has to do with the way the brain gets programmed. Every time you send a message to your brain, your brain physically, chemically, records it temporarily. The more positive messages your brain gets, the more positive directions it will record––and in time, with enough repetition, your brain will go beyond recording them temporarily; it will “wire them in,” by creating new neural pathways, and act on them. Each time you read the positive self-talk phrases in this book, you’re sending more healthy messages to your brain. The more you repeat these messages, the stronger and more permanent they become. So you’re literally rewiring your own brain with healthy, positive thoughts and messages. Is Positive Self-Talk Telling You the Truth? When you first read or listen to positive self-talk, because it’s positive and stated in the present tense, you might think, “But that’s not me,” or “That’s not true about me.” That’s because some self-talk can sound too good to be true. So is it? The answer is that positive self-talk paints a new picture of how you’re choosing to become. It may not sound like you or your life the first time you read it, but it defines the new choices you’re making to become that way. It may not be you at the moment, but it’s a picture of you that you’re choosing to create. The brain listens best to directions that are specific and detailed. The better your brain can see it, the better it can help you create it. That’s why self-talk is worded in the present tense; to give your brain the clearest, completed picture possible of what you want to accomplish. The clearer the picture you give to your brain of who you want to become, and how you want your life to be, the better your brain will physically ‘wire it in’ and help you get it. When you see an artist’s illustration of the fabulous new home you’re going to build, you don’t look at the picture of your home and say, “This isn’t true,” or “This isn’t real,” just because your dream home isn’t built yet. You look at the illustration of that beautiful new home and see yourself living in it! It may not be a touchable reality when you first imagine it, but it is a future reality in the process of becoming real. That’s what positive self-talk is: it’s a picture of you as you choose to become––the picture of you you’re telling your brain to create. The right self-talk is telling you the truth of who you really are, and what you choose to do now to bring the real you to life. The Most Important Key to ‘Success’ is Repetition, Repetition, Repetition Secret #3: What you repeat frequently, wires the brain. That’s so important, it bears repeating: Repetition wires the brain. Because what you experience most, you ‘wire in’ most, the most important key to success is repetition. Repetition is the key to wiring or rewiring your brain in the right way because of the way neural networks are formed in the brain. Neural pathways in the brain are formed by repeatedly sending electrical and chemical messages (your thoughts) over the same route––over and over again––like building a highway with layer after layer of concrete or asphalt. In your brain, each time you travel over the same...